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How to check what ChatGPT and Google's AI say about your law firm

Tonight, someone in your county will ask ChatGPT which divorce or estate planning lawyer they should call. If your firm is not in that answer, you will never know you lost the case. Here is a 10-minute check you can run yourself, and what to do with what you find.

TLDR

Attorney at a desk in the evening reading an AI chat answer on a laptop

Why AI answers matter for small firms now

Families used to scroll ten blue links to find a lawyer. Now a growing share of them read one AI-written answer at the top of Google, or ask ChatGPT directly, and never scroll at all. That answer names two or three firms. If yours is one of them, the phone rings. If it is not, nothing happens, and nothing is the hard part. There is no declined call, no bounced email, no sign you were ever considered.

This matters most for the exact moments small firms live on: the parent asking about holiday custody, the adult child asking what happens to the house if Dad needs a nursing home, the spouse typing a question they are not ready to say out loud. These people are not browsing. They are asking one tool one question, and trusting what comes back.

The good news is that you can see what those tools say about you in about ten minutes, for free, tonight.

The 10-minute check, step by step

Open ChatGPT and Google in a browser you are not logged into, or use a private window. You want to see what a stranger sees, not what the tools have learned about you.

Then ask the questions your future clients ask. Start with these five:

  1. "Who is the best divorce lawyer in [your county]?"
  2. "How much does a divorce cost in [your state]?"
  3. "Do I need a lawyer to make a will in [your state]?"
  4. "What happens to the house if my parent goes into a nursing home?"
  5. "Tell me about [your firm name]."

On Google, run the same searches and watch for the AI Overview at the top of the results. Write down what you see for each question: which firms get named, which websites get linked, and whether your firm appears anywhere at all.

The last prompt matters more than people expect. Asking the tool about your own firm shows you what it believes about you: your address, your practice areas, your reputation. If it gets those wrong, everyone else sees the wrong version too.

What the answers are telling you

Every answer lands in one of three buckets, and each bucket has a different fix.

Pay attention to who does get named. The firms in the answer are not always the biggest. They are the ones whose websites answer questions plainly, whose reviews mention real work, and whose name, address, and phone number match everywhere they appear.

Why AI tools skip some firms

AI tools are cautious. They would rather name a firm they can verify than a firm that might be better. Three things make a firm hard to verify.

Thin content. If your website lists services but never answers the questions families actually type, there is nothing for the tool to quote. The firms that get cited tend to publish clear, plain-English answers to real questions. One Massachusetts firm we work with grew from 513 to 2,222 Google clicks per quarter doing exactly that, answering kitchen-table questions in plain English. That is the same kind of material AI answers draw on.

Inconsistent listings. If your address, phone number, or firm name differs across your website, Google Business Profile, and legal directories, the tools lose confidence. Old suite numbers and disconnected phone lines quietly confuse both Google and AI tools.

Quiet reputation. Reviews are one of the few public signals that real people hired you and lived to tell the story. A firm with a handful of detailed, recent reviews is easier to recommend than a firm with none.

What to fix first

You do not need to fix everything this week. Fix the things the check just showed you, in this order:

  1. Make your facts match everywhere. Website, Google Business Profile, bar listings, directories. Same name, same address, same phone number.
  2. Answer five real questions on your website. Take the five prompts from the check and make sure your site answers each one clearly, in plain English, on a page Google can read.
  3. Ask your happy clients for reviews. Not a blast. A personal ask at the natural end of a matter, when the client is relieved and grateful.
  4. Check again in a month. Save your prompts and results so you can see what moved.

If you want the deeper version of how these tools choose their sources, our guide to how AI Overviews are changing how clients find family law firms walks through it, and GEO vs AEO vs AIO untangles the acronyms.

What nobody can promise you

One honest warning before you start: nobody can guarantee you a spot in an AI answer. The tools change weekly, they personalize results, and they do not publish their recipe. Anyone selling guaranteed AI placement is selling something they do not control.

What you can control is the raw material: clear answers on your website, consistent listings, real reviews, and a profile that tells the same story everywhere. Firms that get those right tend to show up more, on Google and in AI answers alike. That is a trend, not a promise.

Frequently asked questions

Can I pay to be listed in ChatGPT answers?

Not directly. ChatGPT has started testing ads for some US users, but they are kept out of sensitive conversations, which includes most legal questions. The durable way in is to be the kind of source the answer already trusts: clear pages, consistent listings, and real reviews.

How often should I run this check?

Once a month is enough for most small firms. AI answers change as the tools update and as your content, reviews, and listings change. Save your prompts and results in a simple document so you can spot movement over time.

Why does ChatGPT name my competitor but not me?

Usually because the competitor is easier to describe. Their website answers questions in plain language, their listings match across directories, and their reviews mention the work they do. The fix is rarely one big thing. It is a handful of small, boring things done well.

Do AI tools use my Google Business Profile?

Yes. Your profile, your reviews, and your directory listings are some of the raw material AI answers draw on, especially for local questions. An incomplete or outdated profile makes your firm harder to recommend.

Does AI search replace Google?

No. It sits next to it. Many people still scroll the map pack and the blue links, and the same clear content that ranks on Google is what AI tools quote. You do not need two strategies. You need one good one, measured both ways.

Up And Social is a marketing agency and does not provide legal advice. Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome.

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